Comfortable Cunnilingus Positions

Cunnilingus is a delightfully sensual and intimate experience whether you perform it or receive it. One of the keys to orally pleasuring a woman requires that you start slow and build intensity gradually. Depending on her state of arousal before you begin, your lover may need at least ten to thirty minutes of cunnilingus to climax. To ensure you do not rush or stop prematurely just as it is getting good, you need to find a position that is comfortable to enjoy prolonged pleasuring.

Various positions offer different sensations both physically and emotionally. Depending on your body types and relative sizes, certain positions will be more comfortable for both of you. Also, some oral pleasuring positions can be more exciting or relaxing to suite the type of mood or stimulation you desire. Even the orientation of your tongue strokes can change resulting in new sensations. Different locations for oral sex also warrant creative types of positions. Each of the following cunnilingus positions has certain advantages. Try them all again or for the first time.

Reclined & Relaxed: is a standard position where she lies on her back (usually on a bed or in a comfy chair) but there are a few variations you can try. If you are lying between her legs, place one or more pillows under her bum (tilting her pelvis upward). This allows you to stimulate around her perineum and vaginal entrance without bending your neck awkwardly. Raising her legs has a similar effect but can become tiring after a while. If on a couch or chair, arrange some furniture so she can support her feet while you kneel between her legs. Some women prefer to tighten their legs as their orgasm approaches. For this situation, you can kneel or lay beside her while you continue to stimulate her clitoris.

Squat & Straddle: while you lie on your back, she can straddle over you in either a kneeling or squatting position. You may need a pillow to prop up your head to reach a comfortable height and avoid neck strain. She can face backward (toward your feet) and encourage your pleasuring by stimulating you as well. Facing forward, she can watch you and enjoy a sense of power play. You will also be able to look up and see her expressions of ecstasy. This position also enables you to stroke and caress her body easily. She can arch backward or lean forward to alter the angle and area of your stimulation. Squatting may be tiring but the muscle tension in her legs may enhance her orgasm.

Backside Bliss: while she kneels and leans forward, you can orally pleasure her from behind either from above or below. For better access to her clitoris, she may need to kneel near the edge of the bed or couch while you kneel on the floor. She can also drape her legs over the edge of the bed or arm rest. A few pillows under her hips and stomach may help as well.

Sixty Nine: is a classic position that can be performed with your lover on top or bottom. As a potentially more comfortable alternative, also try lying on your sides. Some women enjoy fellatio while being orally pleasured. Although fun to attempt now and again, striving for simultaneous orgasms in this way is not essential. Allow your lover to fully focus on her orgasm(s) as an individual yet mutually enjoyable experience.

Stand & Receive: while she stands, you can kneel and orally pleasure her in front or behind. The front position provides relatively good access to her clitoris. A few flexible contortions are required to stimulate other regions. When in front, you can gaze up at her while she watches. You can also lie with your head over the edge of a bed or bench while she straddles you in a standing position.

Exotic Excitement: some more advanced positions can be achieved using some creative accessories. Some of the sex swings available enable you to experiment with some wild, almost weightless positions - even hanging upside down if you want. There are also custom made benches specially designed to adjust for different cunnilingus positions. For a less extreme accessory, use lots of luxurious pillows to prop yourselves into comfortable positions. Cunnilingus while your lover is floating on her back in water (pool, hot tub, ocean, etc.) can be quite fun too.

When considering different positions for cunnilingus, remember to take into account the emotional aspects. Some women are uncomfortable with their bodies and may want to avoid certain positions that seem unflattering to them. However, many men and women find the visual component of cunnilingus to be part of the erotic thrill. Each position adds a new perspective which can be enhanced with lingerie or different types of lighting. Subtle aspects of dominance and submission can also come into play. Whatever your desires, ensure your lover feels comfortable emotionally and physically so you can both enjoy this sensual experience.